My Musings..

Behavior solely decides others attitude towards you.

To an extent at least, you see being nice doesn’t necessarily mean you will be treated equally nicely.

So I guess the foremost thing that one need to understand is that you yourself can only satisfy ones need.

Others may be able to compliment it, because what satisfies you is decided by you.

So raise the bar for yourself (so that you work hard to achieve your target) and lower the bar for others (waiting for others to do your job is plain laziness and foolishness on your part).